Ever feel like you’re constantly making mistakes as a mom, and wonder “WHAT IF I would have just done things differently?”
And every day I pray I’ll be the mom who guides with love and trust. Where God’s knock on the door is always answered, and grace soars in and ushers our kids through the messy moments of their teenage years.
Every day these “What if” questions herd my mind into a corral like an overzealous border collie with a flock of sheep. Sure, I know the right answers, yet the day flies by and I’ve botched it all again. Or have I? Maybe I did something right. As moms we have to forgive ourselves, trip, fall, grab onto something, stand up on our arthritic ankles and keep going one day at a time.
Here are my “WHAT IF’S”…
What if I went all day without saying one negative thing to anyone?
What if I didn’t complain to my kids about being on their phones?
What if I trusted more and criticized less. A lot less?
What if I admitted devices help with socialization?
What if I invested in what piques my kids’ interest or makes them laugh so crazy hard on their phones?
What if I walked by a half-made bed and thought of it as a glass-half-full?
What if I were able to feel their anxiety on the first day of school?
What if I didn’t complain once about my own appearance all day?
What if I focused on one task at a time?
What if I hugged my kids more?
What if I always made time for my husband?
What if I called my parents every day?
What if I walked my dogs more often?
What if I read a book, cover to cover…just because?
What if I sifted through my 42,644 digital photos and only kept my favorite 200?
What if I donated everything we haven’t used in one year?
What if I knew a magic word to rid my kids of their teenage worries?
What if I planned ahead for dinner?
What if I helped my kids learn to study and get it rather than memorize?
What if I reminded them more often how special they are?
What if I told them I know being a teenager can be awful these days, but it will get better?
What if I was as proud of myself as I am of them?
What if we could have had one more baby?
What if I felt their fear every time they tried something new?
What if I stopped feeling sorry for my unemployed self?
What if I celebrated being a mom?
What if I listened? Really listened?
What if I counted my blessings instead of yelling at them?
Would I be a better Mom?
Do you have any WHAT IF’S? Please share yours and together we’ll conquer this mom thing.
“If you give freely, there will always be more.”